Dating a transgender woman is’t easy and you have to pay a complete attention while having a transgender date. Transgender dating isn’t the same as other dating but there are few thing or rules that are quite the same and you have to follow them if you really want to enjoy your transgender dating. You are dating a transgender woman for the very first time and don’t know how to proceed your date. What you have to talk and from where you can start your first transgender date? There are many things that you need to know before jump into a transgender dating. Here are few rules that you must know and have to follow while you are in your first trans date.
Don’t ask questions about genders and sex – we are not sex and gender professors, so don’t ask questions about anything that is related to sex or gender. We are on a date and you too. If you want to date a transgender woman, make sure to behave like a date and don’t make it worse by asking silly questions. There is Google for you and for everyone that can answer all your questions but on a date, don’t ask any questions from your transgender date about her sex or gender choice. Don’t ask her questions likes the differences between transgender and transsexual. It’s your first date and make sure you are not embarrassing her by asking irrelevant questions.
Keep the bed conversation for bed time only – you know that you are dating a transgender woman for the very first time, so don’t think that transgender women love to talk about sex or anything dirty. Make sure you don’t start any sensitive topic that is related to sex choice or favorite sex position. It’s your first date and you have to ask about her choices, likes, dislikes or what makes her more excited and share about yours too. It’s quite important to understand her and make her feel comfortable when she is with you. If questions about sex or bed position make her uncomfortable and she isn’t taking part or interested in this conversation, leave the topic and find a new topic so that she can also take part in conversation and find herself in a comfort zone. if she find herself comfortable with you, there are more chances that she will remain with you for long term and you can enjoy your transgender dating.
Leave the past and ask about our future – transgender or transsexual woman are heading towards for the future and leave the past behind or may also forget what they was in past. So, it’s quite best for you to do the same and ask her about their future plans and interests. Past is past and don’t ask any questions from her about her past identity. What her old or real name before surgery? When did you turn into transgender or transsexual? When you did your surgery? These are all irrelevant questions and you have to ignore or avoid all questions.